So confused dating
Last month Jocelyn over at Speaking of China wrote On Dating Chinese Men and asked us fellow bloggers to do the same.Her goal is to gather us mus reliable information about dating Chinese men as possible, so when others are searching it online they will get a better picture what is it really like to date a Chinese guy.But I have a few Swedish girlfriends and they all have opinions of their fellow male counterparts. Swedish guys have done a good job of losing their balls over the years, part thanks to feminism, part thanks to super tight jeans that served as self castrating devices.First off, if you are man, Swedish, French, American, British, you have to learn how to smooch and booze with those hot Swedish women. Second, it seems that foreign men in Sweden have an advantage over the Swedish men. Here’s what Swedish women think of Swedish men: After reading all these comments you must think, “damn, how do Swedish men and women mate and have lots of babies?But at the same time you get a man who wants to take care of his family, is willing to work hard for everyone’s happiness and loves kids.Someone who knows why he is dating you and will let you know it too. If you meet a great Chinese guy then go for it, don’t let the stereotypes or someone’s bad experiences hold you back.
Taking care of you Chinese guys are generally good at taking care of you, or at least a good Chinese man is.If necessary learn the local dialect in order to communicate with his family and relatives.The good and the bad I’ve got my heart-broken by a Chinese guy, I’ve already felt the happiest with a Chinese guy.He might cook for you, or make sure you always have water to drink.Or he might go shopping with you and insists paying for everything.Someone who haven’t even heard about commitment phobia. Swedish girls are everything what you fantasize about.Right now (October 2013) I’m living together with my Cantonese boyfriend and his parents.We are in the process of renovating the old family house for us.Of course there are exceptions to this rule, but most of the Chinese men out there date to marry They might start talking about it very early in the relationship in order to know if you have the same ideas about dating as he does.Usually if you meet the parents it is a sign of a serious relationship, probably this guy wants to marry you if things continue going well with you.