Frugal people dating
In particular, people tend to assume that it is always a good thing to think long and hard about everything, consciously deliberating different potential outcomes and rationally weighing different pros and cons.
However, an emerging field of research is questioning this traditional view.
In an attempt to cope with the large amount of information and potential choices that we are presented with on a daily basis, we tend to rely on so-called “heuristics” (rules of thumb) that help guide our decision making.
Yet new research does point out a different dating problem: being confronted with a large number of choices can make it harder to make a good decision.
Other research has shown that more choices can cause people to avoid decisions and generally lead them to be less satisfied.
Have you ever had trouble trying to decide what brand of candy to buy in the supermarket?
In conclusion, when pressured for time and faced with many competing options, “fast and frugal” decision making can (potentially) enhance the quality of our decisions.
Selecting your future spouse based on the recognition heuristic might be overdoing it a bit, but when overwhelmed with potential choices at a speed-dating event, supermarket aisle or restaurant menu, going with a simple heuristic is a reasonable option.